just because you can reclaim slurs doesn’t mean you get to call other people slurs why can’t all of you be decent human beings you all say you shouldn’t use the q slur on others and then turn around and call people you disagree with the r slur lmao!!
here’s my hot take: coping isn’t an excuse for any behavior and if you’re doing something that hurts other people or perpetuates dangerous ideologies and your defense is that it’s “coping” you have no defense. proper coping methods shouldn’t hurt other people or yourself. see a therapist.
when i worked at the anime store i kinda grilled ppl who bought bowser merch and they got caught off-guard and looked rly guilty and embarrassed like every time. i loved it so much
“this is one of our nicest dolls, is it a gift for some lucky young mario fan…? oh, no? wow, you must really like bowser…”
I feel like I’m missing something here. I don’t understand
Katy Perry really just sat there and called trans girls on tumblr rats. Like she really just owned up to stealing our shit and then sit there like she isn’t the one lacking taste. Least I’m not bottom feeding even if I’m not getting paid bitch! Who’s the real rat now!
Can aces stop acting like HSDD isn’t an actual real medical condition? Yes, 100%, doctors should be taught about asexuality so that they don’t misdiagnosis someone and they should be encouraged to present that as a reason to someone coming in and seeking help. At the same time, a doctor saying “let’s check your hormones and look to see if there are other underlying causes” isn’t oppression. There are so many instances where a lack of interest in sex is due to anxiety, depresssion, illness, injury, or other medical concerns.
HSDD is, in fact, not diagnosticable on asexual people.
HSDD is, in fact, only diagnosticable on people whose lack of sexual attraction/libido causes marked distress. And this is something that has been repeatedly told to inclusionists.
Now, if an asexual person’s asexuality is a cause of distress for them, then the problem isnt HSDD and maaaaaybe its on the ace community’s “your sex-related trauma/illness means YOU.ARE.ACE!” anti-recovery mentality.
i hit a squirrel on my way home and then i found out the average squirrel can live 10+ years, sometimes up to 15 years, so i’m gonna make my boyfriend put a curse on me that takes away 10-15 years of my own life and gives it to the relatives of the squirrel i killed to atone for my mistakes
years ago i watched this p/orn and the girl was screaming ‘oh god!! oh god!!!’ and the dude was like ‘there are no gods here’ and to this day it haunts me wtf was he talking about
the same thing happened to me with redbubble. They just suspended my account and wouldn’t let me make a new one after like 15 mins of having one. Apparently this happens to a lot of people so I’ve been looking into trying to find a different site because uhhhh fuck redbubble
it’s so frustrating and they haven’t replied to my email yet and i was so committed to that username 😭
i have shirts up on threadless but RB has so many more options for non shirts so i’m not sure where else to list them…
stop trying to find ways for women to be mlm and for men to be wlw
mlm and wlw are mutually exclusive. being both a woman and a man doesn’t mean that you’re both wlw and mlm, it means that you’re neither
if you can’t understand that women are women, therefore they can’t ever be men loving men, and men are men, therefore they can’t ever be women loving women, i don’t know what to tell you
i hate bein a sucker for canon gays bc i see so many things and i’m like “wow! i think i’d hate this and it’d make me miserable but boy would i love to see those gays”
