just because you can reclaim slurs doesn’t mean you get to call other people slurs why can’t all of you be decent human beings you all say you shouldn’t use the q slur on others and then turn around and call people you disagree with the r slur lmao!!
here’s my hot take: coping isn’t an excuse for any behavior and if you’re doing something that hurts other people or perpetuates dangerous ideologies and your defense is that it’s “coping” you have no defense. proper coping methods shouldn’t hurt other people or yourself. see a therapist.
